I started again...
I haven't cut in a solid six months. The first time I did it was when I was raped a little over a year ago by my ex boyfriend. It helped me forget the emotional pain and be distracted from it. I...
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Hey, trying to be clean for a day is brave. Remember to celebrate the small victories, even going clean for a few hours is something to celebrate. Take things one step at a time. Everything will...
View ArticleDouching
I'm a 46 year old woman who is experiencing heavier cramps , Will douching on your period ease cramps?...
View ArticleI have a broken heart
I'm sorry that you feel the way you do, I can't relate to a broken heart, but I can relate to self-harm. For self-harm I used a red marker to cut myself, maybe that would work for you too. I would...
View ArticleParent of teen who has cut
My 15 yo has many friends who cut or have cut. We found out in October she had cut (she told us) we got her to a therapist right away. She’s cut once again since, I don’t know how to balance monitoring...
View ArticleFirst time cutter
Hi there! My name's Meghan, and I'm the group leader of this support group. While cutting may seem great (trust me, I know how great it seems in the moment), it's a very short term solution that causes...
View ArticleRelapsed after 10 months. Please help :( (could be a trigger?)
First off I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through, and that i didn't reply more quickly! You are so strong to be able to know what your doing is self destructive, and to have stopped many of...
View ArticleNightmares and Cutting Thoughts for Two Weeks Straight
First off, what MDJ likes everyone to do is start a new discussion for new topics, that way if people are enduring similar struggles they can more easily locate the thread to read or respond. To...
View ArticleNewbie-found out about our daughter cutting just this morning.
She is 12, 13 in Oct. She holds on so tight to the bad things people say, but not the good stuff. She has a great imagination, she writes, sings, rides horses....she is great at a lot of things. She...
View Articlemy baby girl is cutting herself..how do I help her?
I used to be a cutter. But once a cutter, always a cutter. Because there are relapses. My parents got tired of it. I don't know where you live, but in Florida if someone she knows like her Friends...
View ArticleOnce a cutter always a cutter
Yep as artsyone said there isn't any criteria to being a cutter. Deep breaths can definitely help, also sit back and observe why you want to cut. Rather than letting your thoughts back you into the...
View ArticleOh my God! I hate myself!
Well, i do sing in the singing groups, i play volleyball, and an instrument they take my mind off a little bit of it but its still really hard...
View ArticleMy Siblings in Mental Hospitals
There are many ways to deal with the hurt you are feeling other than cutting. Finding those ways, and carrying them out is whats the hardest part. Cutting is an addiction, but that doesn't mean you...
View ArticleJust found out my 13 year old daughter is cutting.
First of all I'm 13 and recently iv been going through a hard time. I shut everyone out and lied saying I'm okay. I did similar things to your daughter and I also cut. We act out like this because we...
View ArticleSelf admittance to hospital? Is it helpful? guidance please
Thank you very much for your reply I appreciate it. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow after 3 long hard weeks of waiting, about maybe admitting myself or any other options that might help. I guess...
View ArticleDO you have some tips or advices to stop self harming ?
Hi Sophie. Sorry to hear that you are struggling with self-harm. I have been through it as well. I used to use a red marker to give the same sensation, it could help you too. Also, are you in...
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